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In your own bubble

As I was seated in the metro (subway) on my way home, I was stucked by the number of people with headphones on listening to their MP3, iPod, iPhone, iTouch... Anyway, they were listening to music or something else. Nobody was smiling to nobody, few people talked to one another.

Then I thought to myself, where is the world going? Why people are cutting themselves from the rest of the world, by shutting themselves down with a simple pair of headphones. Is the world becoming more selfish and self-centered? Where are interpersonal relations going?

I don't own a MP3 or any portable musical device. The only electronic device I carry on me is my cellphone and it's such an old one that I don't have an integrated camera, there is no MP3, and I seldom text message people... I like seeing people and talking to them directly.

I also remember that young guy seating next to the metro door. There was an old lady with a cane that rushed in in the search of a seat. He didn't even notice her, thus he didn't get up and gave her his seat. Fortunately, someone saw her and gave up his seat.

People seldom smile to one another nowadays, there are either too busy thinking of themselves or stubbornly avoiding to have contacts with strangers, they sat their mind in an off-social mindset when they are outside of their normal "habitat", meaning their workplace or home or any other known-place/comfort zone.

What happened to the time where everyone has to rely on one another, where people weren't as preoccupied with themselves as now, where people actually talk to one another?

I can be the devil's advocate myself, but I won't do it. What is the purpose of finding excuses for such behaviour? It is often said that human beings are social animals... I'm starting to have a doubt...

We will see where this is going...

March 2, 2010 | 11:49 AM Comments  0 comments

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The Spirit of Giving and Caring

Today, I volunteered for the Action Terroriste Socialement Acceptable (ATSA). Translated in English, it means Terrorist Action Socially Acceptable. I was assigned to the clothing distribution table and loved the experience.

We have so many prejudices against homeless people. Today, as I was distributed clothes to the needy, I thought them quit nice. They seem just so happy to be able to get some warm clothes before the snow fall.

ATSA have organised the State of Emergency which take place for 5 days, with shelters, food distribution, care and artistic shows 24/24 for 5 days.

It aims at bringing awareness to the local.

I got to talk to a few people and it had been a nice chat. One of them came to my friend and I and talked about how people keeps looking down on them and shouldn't. The news talk about their miseries, labelled them "itinerant" and he didn't like that. He told us that he was one, but got out of it and we should talk about those who succeed in getting out of the streets.

I also got the chance to talk to a guy named Philippe. He has a degree in literature, but decided that he was going to be a street worker instead, dealing with kids in the streets. It was so much more valuable. He's been doing that for two years now and got some CEGEP students in social work to volunteer some of their time for the State of Emergency. He said that many students asked him how they should be dressed for the volunteer work, if they should be dressed "crappily"... Not all the people in the street looks awkward!

I remember many people were "picky" on the clothes we gave them, and one said, "it's not because we live in the streets that we can wear anything". They do care about their image and the way they look.

It's been a very gratifying experience. I felt that they were glad to get some new clothes and I must admit, the clothes we receive were really nice. Although they were second hand, I am pleasantly surprise that the clothing were quit modern, adapted to everyone.

For more information:

http://www.atsa.qc.ca/projs/eu09/uk/motatsa.html

November 27, 2009 | 12:01 AM Comments  0 comments

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Selfless act of generosity
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I just wanted to share this with you guys.

A few days ago, as I was sited in the subway on my way to meet a friend, I witnessed something that marked me.

As we entered Sherbrooke station, all the passengers and I heard a big noise, like someone just being hit by the train. Actually, a drunken guy crashed in the moving wagon, it made a terrible sound... Lots of people stood up at once to look out the window to see what was going on.

Then, the door opened and the guy felt, face first, into our train. He was about 40is, dirty looking, his clothes covered with vomit. All the persons on my side of the wagon just left their seats or stand and rush on the other side...

Right behind the drunkard, a guy in his 20s was helping him out. They just met at the station...

The asked if anyone has a cellphone so that he can get an ambulance to check on the guy, but everyone gave a negative answer or didn't even seem to want to help out.

At the next station, although he was on his way elsewhere, he still help the poor guy, leading the way up the station to seek for help...

That's where my story ends.

While all these unfolded in front of my eyes, I sat still on my seat in the subway... I couldn't help much, no cell, no medical training... But that guy, that helped the other one, made me realize that there is still some good in this big, fast-pace city. Some people do take the time to help one another, although they were perfect strangers.

It was a selfless act of generosity.

September 14, 2009 | 2:08 AM Comments  1 comments

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Two months in Spain, 20 days in the rest of Europe
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The past three months has been intense. I first decided to leave my hometown for a while as I was starting to be edgy, staying here for such a long time (meaning two months for me!). As I'm starting to forget my Spanish and need it to work in Latin America, and I've always dreamt visiting Europe, I told myself, why not visit Europe while studying Spanish in Spain.

It was one of the best things that I can have choose for myself. I was free again, travelling the world, meeting new people and enjoying life at its utter best.

So on D-Day, I arrived in France, but had to miss the ceremony of the 65th anniversary of the landing. I rushed and catched my flight just in time for Madrid, after an eternal wait to get in the Schoegen Area. From Madrid, I have to work my way around the metro to find the Estacion Sur.

These were two of the best months in my life. I met incredible people from all around the world. I was surprised at the number of Japanese people studying Spanish over there. I got to visit a few cities in Spain with school and went to Portugal visiting relatives I've never met.

After my two months in Salamanca, I headed to France and visited the place I've always wanted to go, that is the Juno Beach Centre, locating in Courseulles-sur-Mer. I have a profound interest in Canadian military interest and especially during the Second World War. I spent a few hours wandering around the area and just loved it. It's just so peaceful now, and the beach so beautiful. Thinking back on how those poor soldiers had suffered, I'm glad that they kept some vestiges such as the bunkers and made a few memorials to commemorate those who died in the name of freedom. We shall not forget them, they must not have died in vain. We are just do lucky nowaday.

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August 27, 2009 | 8:18 PM Comments  0 comments



Intensif month in China
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To be completed...

Last month, I had the incredible chance of going to visit China, where my roots lie. It was my very first time setting foot in the country and I came back to Canada, changed.

My perception about China differed a lot from the China I have always heard of in the news, in school, in book and in movies. My family used to tell me a lot of stories about their native land and I had come to believe that China was, all in all, the China they were telling me about... However, things have changed a lot since they last went back...

What I've discovered was beyond my expectations. I went to the countryside in southern Guangdong, in the search of my ancestors' hometown. I got the chance to go where few tourists would ever go. I went way back in the countryside, in the rural area where only few houses stood, grouped in little communes. Then, I knew exactly what my mom has always told me about her "home", the home of her childhood. Although it had went through major construction, the atmosphere of the commune was one of sadness and hardship. Things have changed, yes... But they still cultivate the lands, trying to find a good way of living...

November 20, 2008 | 2:36 AM Comments  0 comments

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